Our daily Autism – Echolalia or “YES, You already said that!”

“Sometimes the young and beautiful nymph Echo would distract and amuse Zeus’ wife, Hera, with long and entertaining stories while Zeus took advantage of the moment to ravish the other mountain nymphs. When Hera discovered the trickery, she was so annoyed she punished the talkative Echo by taking away her voice, except in foolish repetition of another’s shouted words. Thus, all Echo could do was repeat the voice of another.”   {source}

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Today for the first time, I looked up the origin of the word Echo. To say the least, this is only the beginning of troubles for young Miss Echo, but the curse of having to communicate with someone else’s words certainly is not a new concept in our house. Echolalia, anyone ?

For those unfamiliar with the term Echolalia, here is a good article explaining it. 

Echolalia comes in many forms but one obvious and honestly annoying expression of it is Nemo’s reaction to watching tv commercials with us.

If the ad has been on before and has spurred any sort of comment from me or my husband (well, sometimes you can’t help yourself : ads are so stupid/funny/sexist.. !) – we will hear it again. Echolalia never fails.

Of course, the ad will still be stupid/funny/sexist on tv the 2nd, 3rd or even 20th time, but the comment becomes somewhat redundant. Yes, we laughed, moaned or condemned it in the first place. And the ad hasn’t changed. But you don’t have to say it, right, again and again. It’s done.

Not for Nemo though and explaining this to him has absolutely no effect. Comment will be repeated, every time! The same comment, exactly.

Now some could say, just don’t comment on the ads if it bothers us so much to hear it repeated. But we like commenting on tv, it makes us laugh, talk and discuss things as they come up. So it will probably not change.

TV Echolalia is here to stay.

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I just found another post about it, at “Just stimming”, she too looked into the greek mythology of Echo. Well is it a curse..?

Quote :  “Echolalia is metalanguage. (..)
Echolalia is what you use when language is too much. It’s just also what you use when it’s not enough.”  {http://juststimming.wordpress.com}

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